Some Girls Never Learn!!!

As some of you know my family has been going thru some pretty difficult times lately. I admit it I even fell off the stop smoking wagon. I have a question for you all. How many of you have ever known that girl, the one who is to sweet for words, but who constantly allows herself to be used as a doormat. That girl who will do anything for the people she loves, so the people she loves start expecting more & more until the sweet girl you all once knew jsut starts to dissappear & becomes someone no one you even recgonize. She gets abused in everyway you can think of & no matter what you do or say you just cannot convince this dumb chic that she needs to change. She just keeps saying it hers fault & goes right on about the same behavior that caused the whole problem. This behavior is insane or idiotic, but does she understand that these people don't really even care about her? No, she just keeps letting these people tell her ever move to make, I think I even heard her ask one time how high when her useless old man told her to jump. Wake up Girl! That man or no man you even know cares a thing about you & they will never care about you if you do not wake up & stop the insanity. Get a life tell that good for nothing husband of yours to get off the couch & get a job, tell him if he ever lays his hands on you again your leaving & mean it, face it girl woman out number men on this planet by alot, do you know what that means? There is another one where that one came from & face it they can't be any worse than your dealing with now. You are the only one who can change your life, do not let anybody tell you who to be. just be you, the very best you you can be & remember nobody can create your happiness but yourself. Smile a little & if you have to cut some dead weight loose to be able to do that, then cut his sorry butt loose, you don't need him.