Ok, today is the day I warned you about on my very first blog. I am fixing to jump up on my soap box & preach now. Everyday I am shocked at the behavior of men/boys now a days. First, I maybe a independent woman who totes a bow or gun, I am an old fashion, non-feminist, woman. I was raised that it is the man's job to provide for his family & a woman's place to raise the kids, keep the home, & general support for her family. Now don't get me wrong. I do not in any shape or form think that a woman cannot throw in & help financially. As a matter of fact, I am not even against totally trading places & being the provider, with that being said, if the woman has to carry the family's financial burden on her shoulders, her male counterpart needs to step up & become the house husband. But men these days seem to think that they get to rule the roost & not be financially supportive, nor do they think that they are to lift a finger around the house to clean, cook, help with the kids. Okay, I do understand that this is not the case in 100% of men. Some men are dreams, they work, live, & breathe for their loves happiness & this is what I hope is the case when it comes to the young men who will soon be coming into my beautiful daughters lives. So, here I am with a word of advice to young men around this great country, even though chivalry is not taught in this country anymore, I don't believe it is dead. Girls want to be treated like ladies. Show some respect to her & her parents. Do not sit in a car in the front yard & honk a horn, if you do in my yard you will be left out there alone until you get out, & walk to my front door, like a gentleman, & escort my daughter to the car. If you get lucky enough to find a woman who loves you & willing to take care of you, make sure you remember to tell her how important she is everyday. If somehow the woman in your life has to at some point become the financial support system for your life to run correctly, get off the couch, load the dish washer, vacuum the dang floor, go pick up the kids, & when she comes home make sure you tell/show her how incredible it is that she blest your life when she joined you in this big wonderful, sometime caotic life...
Now, I apologize to anyone I may have offended, then again, No, if I offended you then you where exactly who I was talking to and about, once you get over your whiney self & think about it, you will stop arguing with that angel who takes care of your rotten butt & maybe you will find that if you follow my advice, you will find that beautiful girl that uses to be there before all the arguing & fussing started.
No comments:
Post a Comment